Mikaila Moffit

Dating Mikaila Moffit

A brief overview of my personal experience dating Mikaila Moffit. This serves as a precautionary advisory to anyone
Mikaila Moffit is talking to and/or looking to date.

January 2023

I met Mikaila Moffit on Facebook dating in January 2023. Conversation was brief and light, nothing out of the ordinary for a dating app. We talked for approximately four months over text. We had a lot in common, similar beliefs, and similar goals.

April 2023

On April 27th, 2023, I asked Mikaila Moffit to be in an exclusive relationship. She agreed. Over the summer it was evident that her time available to commit to a relationship was extremly limited. I directly asked Mikaila on several occasions to set up a date in person to no avail.

At the time I was unaware that she had not disclosed to her family the nature of our relationship.

March 2024

Eventually, the relational stresses led to Mikaila and I choosing to end the relationship.

April 2024

After approximately one month Mikaila decided she wanted to continue to pursue a relationship, and I accepted. We made plans for me to move to her hometown (250+ miles), which I did in May. I was operating under the assumption at the time that she disclosed to her family that I had moved there (she had not).

This is the first month in which Mikaila asked for help with supporting her and her family's bills. The total she asked for was approximately $250 per week. She suggested to me that she wanted to work for the money, and it would help her Writing career if she wrote blog posts for my blog in exhange for payment. No contractual agreement was signed.

June 2024

We had our first date in June. She invited me over to her parents' house, but I was asked not to tell them because they were out of town and did not know I was there.

July 2024

I met her family for the first time, and they seemed relatively welcoming and nice. Her dad was somewhat intimidating, but a giant teddy bear, to be frank. Her mom was nice and down to earth.

August 2024

During the month of August we went on dates weekly. They seemed light hearted and enjoyable, and her family invited me to join them for weekly dinner and family movie nights.

During the last week of August I found comments on Mikaila's tiktok page where she was actively asking out content creators while we were in a relationship.

On the night of August 31st, I went into severe hypoglycemia and subsequent insulin shock while I was asleep. This resulted in hospitalization and cerebral hypoxia. Following this, I had temporary amnesia. Mikaila told me during this time that I had made disrespectful comments about her Dad, and that her parents asked her to cease contact with me.

Additionally, in my conversation with her family in November 2025, I learned that Mikaila told her family that she stopped talking to me due to disrespectful comments I made about her father. It was implied that she did this of her own volition, not as a request from her parents. There is still no evidence aside from Mikaila's word that I made disrespectful comments about her family. Which makes sense, because I respected (and still respect) her family immensely for taking me in as part of their family. I do not, however, respect Mikaila Moffit at all.

December 2024

In December I was involved in a roll over crash while on my way to work. I called Mikaila to ask if her parents could help me. She said they weren't comfortable helping me. In November 2025, her family directly told me she never mentioned to them that I was in a car accident.

As of December, Mikaila still expected me to send her the weekly payments. By May of 2025 the total value of the payments was $17,000+.

May 2025

Over the preceeding two months, Mikaila had begun to hyperfixate on the idea of sleeping and being physically intimate with a woman. It was brought up to me, her boyfriend, frequently. After which I was asked to not hyperfixate on the fact that my girlfriend had just told me she was fantasizing about sleeping with other people.

I did not hyperfixate on it until I learned that she had online dating profiles listing herself as a Lesbian.

This became a recurring theme in our conversations, where I tried to be supportive. I did not learn until after our dissolution of our relationship that she had actively been telling people in mutual friend groups that she wasn't in a relationship with me, rather I was the last guy she dated before she came out as Lesbian, and I was her stalker. She completely ommitted everything else, including the fact that we were actively in a relationship at the time these conversations were going on.

November 2025

I reached out to her parents directly to disclose the lies that Mikaila was spreading about me and them online. I have had no contact with her parents from September 2024 until now. The bomb was dropped that they never knew she was still dating me. They did not have an issue with me being in a relationship with her, they had an issue with HER being in a relationship, because she is so detrimentaly dishonest about anything and everything, and fundamentally self-serving, for whatever reason.

Mikaila tried to frame her parents as witholding and controlling. What she (intentionally?) ommitted was that they were doing so to protect her, and to protect the world FROM her.

In Conlusion

This is simply my personal experience with Mikaila. She takes advantage of people because it is easier than making her way in the adult world responsibly and respectfully. Unfortunately, in her story book, I will always be the villian. I am okay with that. What she did broke me and rebuilt me in ways that I could not have accomplished without her doing so. I am better off for it. However, not everybody could benefit from that kind of betrayl. To anyone reading this, do your research. With Mikaila, and anyone else you date.

As a few lessons learned from my personal experience with Mikaila, trust your gut, and if you see the following red flags, you are valid in suspecting that your partner might be trying to hide something from you:

• You are isolated from their day to day life (You are hidden from people close to them).
• You are asked not to communicate with people close to them despite being in an intimate emotional and physical relationship with them (Isolation to control the narritive).
• The life they present to you, and the life you see on their social media are vastly different.
• They ask you to "Leave the past in the past" when there are valid concerns about dishonesty.
• They try to convince you that you are "too emotional" or "overreacting" when you voice your feelings.
• It feels like every time you try to voice a concern of yours it "Invalidates how they feel".

The long and short of it is, everyone deserves to be loved, and to be happy, even the people we dislike on a personal level. But no one, should have to go through the situation mentioned above simply because they were too naive to realize the truth.

The truth is, if your partner can't be honest with you, and has to lie to you, it's time to move on. Ignore the guilt trips and the tears (it isn't easy, I know from experience) and run for the f**king hills. No one deserves to be treated like that, even Mikaila Moffit, despite how disgusted I am with her as a human being.

Learn from my mistakes, protect yourself, educate yourself, and never EVER give to anyone beyond your means.

Stay safe, and if you found this site, you likely have already run into your own questions about Mikaila Moffit, and so, my friend, hopefully you can be the one to help her through whatever convoluted mess goes on inside her head, but remember, you can not help someone who does not want to be helped.